I’m afraid I have to cheat you out of your pictures from the Likness family Thanksgiving. None of us were in a very picture-taking festive mood. Our little baby dog (who was getting to be an old lady in dog years) had heart failure and we had to put her to sleep. All of us were at the house for Thanksgiving dinner, so we got to see her one last time.
We got her when we moved into the very first house we ever owned on Lolita Street in Redlands, California. All four of us kids had begged and begged for a dog and, true to their word, as soon as we no longer rented a house, my parents got us a dog. Joanna and I were 12, Joel was 10, and Aaron was 8. We adopted her from a pet rescue program. When we went to visit her in her “foster home” for the first time, we all fell in love instantly. Joel named her Ramona, after Ramona Quimby of Beverly Cleary fame.
We all loved her so much. I remember taking her to the park and thinking about how often I’d looked at kids with dogs and wished so hard it hurt that I could have a dog too, and now I had one. I felt like the luckiest kid on the entire planet.
She made the move with us to North Carolina. She was a constant in a rough time for me. It’s never easy on a kid to move to an entirely new place, but it sure is easier with a happy dog to meet you when you get home. The move wasn’t all that easy on her either. Before we fenced the back yard, we kept her in a dog run in the back yard when we went to church. That didn’t last long. She chewed through the chicken wire and escaped, and then had to go to the emergency vet to have an x-ray of the piece of wire she’d swallowed.
She was always Mom’s dog, her shadow. And when the four of us kids moved out, one by one, she became even more Mom’s dog. Even with the addition of her new doggy sister, Sally, Ramona was always the Princess, or rather, the Queen. It didn’t take Sally long to figure out the pecking order.
In her later years, she was getting arthritic. She had poor circulation to her legs and a deteriorating spine. She’d been on heart medicine for a few months, with a progressively worsening heart murmur. When we adopted her, we think she was about 6 months old. That would have made her about 13 years old when she died today. That’s about 65 in human years. It was her time to go, but it’s so hard to say goodbye to a dog that’s as much a part of your family as anyone else is. Her human brothers and sisters and mommy and daddy will miss her very much.
Rest in peace, Mona-dog.
